Trends and Statistics  for the Tulsa Area

Tulsa is a great town in which to be single! There are many, many, exciting people out there just waiting to meet like-minded types.

Singles are getting more sophisticated as society gets more paranoid. One of these days having a matchmaker will be second nature. It's like outsourcing something that is one of the most important decisions that you make in your entire life.

Ambiance of Tulsa is not a matchmaking warehouse. We don't have any quotas to achieve or national franchise fees to shell out. We are extremely selective in the clients that we take. Making our clients happy makes us happy. Most of our customers come as word of mouth or referrals. That right there says it all.

Do you believe in love at first sight ?

1. Yes 71%
2. No 20%
3. Don't Know 9%

Choose the most important features of a partner

1. Looks 11%
2. Personality 30%
3. Physique 5%
4. Sense of Humor 14%
5. Eyes 10%
6. Popularity 0%
7. Smile 12%
8. Hair 7%
9. Education 7%
10. Career 3%

When a previous relationship has ended which of these is true ?

1. I was unfaithful 0%
2. He/she was unfaithful 29%
3. Amicable separation 9%
4. Irreconcilable differences 23%
5. Angry breakup 3%
6. Still friends 14%
7. Still lovers 3%
8. Just drifted apart 6%
9. Not sure what happened 14%

On a date do you think your companion is generally 100% truthful ?

1. Yes 22%
2. No 78%
3. Don't know 0%

When does a date become a relationship ?

1. 1 week 3%
2. 1 month 17%
3. 2 months 20%
4. 6 months 13%
5. Once we have had sex 13%
6. Once I have met the parents 8%
7. Once we have been on vacation 0%
8. Once we have moved in together 0%
9. When he/she says I love you 25%

Do you trust someone when you first date them ?

1. Yes 24%
2. No 67%
3. Don't Know 10%

Do you think it is okay to date someone from work ?

1. Yes, absolutely 22%
2. Yes, if you are careful 26%
3. Yes, if it remains a secret 4%
4. Yes, but not from your own office 15%
5. No, you will risk your career 13%
6. No, absolutely not 11%
7. Unsure 9%

What is the biggest acceptable age gap for you ?

1. Same age only 0%
2. 1 years 2%
3. 3 years 12%
4. 5 years 44%
5. 10 years 24%
6. 15 years 4%
7. 20 years 2%
8. 25 years 4%
9. Age doesn't matter at all 8%

What is the first thing you notice about your date ?

1. Looks 38%
2. Dress 10%
3. Personality 17%
4. Wealth 0%
5. Style 2%
6. Manners 0%
7. Smile 10%
8. Eyes 19%
9. Humor 4%
10. Generosity 0%

How hard it it to find someone you really like?

1. Impossible 9%
2. Difficult 59%
3. Fairly difficult 21%
4. Fairly easy 9%
5. Very easy 3%

Do you think people's expectations are too high these days ?

1. Yes 62%
2. No 31%
3. Don't Know 7%

Do you like being single ?

1. I love it 0%
2. I like it 15%
3. I don't mind 35%
4. I don't like it 15%
5. I hate it 35%

Do appearance and looks matter to you ?

1. Yes 67%
2. No 17%
3. Don't know 17%

Do you find it easy to meet new people ?

1. Very easy 17%
2. Quite easy 6%
3. Easy 17%
4. Quite difficult 42%
5. Very difficult 17%
6. Impossible 3%

How long have you been single ?

1. 1 week 11%
2. 1 month 7%
3. 3 months 22%
4. 6 months 18%
5. 1 year 11%
6. 2 years 7%
7. 2 years+ 24%

Would you like to get married ?

1. Yes 44%
2. No 12%
3. Maybe 32%
4. Not again 4%
5. Don't know 8%

What kind of hair color are you most attracted to ?

1. Blonde 32%
2. Black 16%
3. Light Brown 8%
4. Dark Brown 8%
5. Gray 4%
6. Red 8%
7. Bald 8%
8. Don't Mind 16%

Girls, do you prefer nice guys or bad guys ?

1. Nice Guys 38%
2. Bad Guys 15%
3. Any man I can get ! 6%
4. A blend of both 34%
5. Neither 7%

How important are a guy's shoes when checking him out ?

1. Extremely 8%
2. Very 13%
3. Quite 45%
4. Not very 11%
5. Not at all 6%
6. Don't notice 18%

Are men too clingy these days ?

1. Yes 38%
2. No 33%
3. Haven't noticed 11%
4. Don't know 18%

Do you think a man should pay for dinner ?

1. Yes always 42%
2. It depends if I like him 4%
3. Sometimes 34%
4. No, both should share the cost 11%
5. No the girl should pay 1%
6. Only if it's expensive 0%
7. No opinion 7%

What kind of woman do you go for ?

1. Modern career girl 35%
2. Professional go-getter 7%
3. Home-loving girl-next-door 34%
4. The quiet librarian 4%
5. The outrageous vamp 0%
6. The femme fatale 0%
7. The girl at the checkout 6%
8. Someone like mom 1%
9. The free spirited hippy chick 8%
10. Your ex 6%

Do girls over estimate their looks ?

1. Always 15%
2. Usually 25%
3. Sometimes 28%
4. Rarely 17%
5. Never 5%
6. All women are beautiful 10%

Do you know what people are attracted to about you ?

1. Yes always 4%
2. Yes I have some ideas 32%
3. I can guess 18%
4. Not really 32%
5. No idea 14%

Have you ever had a one night stand and regretted it the next day ?

1. Yes 42%
2. No 53%
3. Maybe, not telling 3%
4. Not sure 2%

Girls, how often should men buy flowers for you ?

1. Once a day 5%
2. Once a week 9%
3. Once a month 23%
4. Once a year 5%
5. When it's special 20%
6. Spontaneously 33%
7. Never 6%

For me, dating is mainly about..... ?

1. Love 21%
2. Marriage 19%
3. Friendship 8%
4. Partnership 6%
5. Sex 19%
6. Company 3%
7. Social life 3%
8. Romance 12%
9. Conversation 3%
10. Sharing 6%